Naked is always honest

I'm torn. I hate calling myself a feminist, due to the bad connotation and stereotypes they get, but i am one deep down, i believe. I think girls (AND BOYS) can wear whatever it is they please without being questioned. Why do i care if a girl is walking around in only her bikini? Why do i care if a girl has a plastic vinyl see-through skirt? (That's me by the way.) I dont. What is it to me what you are wearing? It's not my body i have no say. I mean, if you're in someone's home completely naked and they ask you to throw some shoes on, you should because it's their house their rules and that would be the polite thing to do. I don't think girls should have to wear shirts if boys don't. I believe feminism is more of an equality thing than a putting-down-of-men thing.

Where I'm stuck is that I understand where people might be coming from when they judge girls "hoes" from what they wear. DON'T HATE ME YET. I'M

NOT DONE. There are people who dress the way they do for attention. I don't want to judge people for what they are wearing! It just hurts my heart when people wear something to please another. Which i believe is where people are coming from when they label girls as "thots" or "hoes", not saying that i agree with them! I'm saying i see where they're coming from. A girl should not pull down her shirt because she wants a boy (or another girl? Or maybe her parents (different story completely)) to acknowledge her. I want a girl to pull down her shirt because she enjoys her body and wants to show her body. Not because she feels like she has to for anyone to yearn for her presence. So, basically, all I'm saying i can understand why a person might not enjoy a girl wearing something skimpy if they think she's doing it solely for attention. BUT!! I do NOT agree with them judging her for that.  Nor do i think that is really anyone's place to decide exactly why this girl is wearing what she's wearing.

If a boy only wants a girl(s) around because of her skin-showing outfit or because he thinks he's going to get something out of a girl - SHAME ON HIM.

 

SHAME ON PEOPLE WHO DON'T LOOK FOR A PERSONALITY.